How to get a man to love you.

Love Him the Way you Want to Be Loved

By on November 7, 2011

If you are struggling with the notion of how to get a man to love you, then you need to take a look at yourself first.   How do YOU love?  Do you tell him constantly how much you love him? Do you do everything for him hoping that he’ll magically open his eyes and be in love with you?  Do you throw yourself at him physically hoping that affection will win him over? These are some of the biggest mistakes a woman can make.  Take a step back and start over.

Start by being yourself.  This is who you want him to truly love anyway. Why have him fall for someone you’re not?  It only leads to disaster down the road.  Let him get to know the real you, but get to know yourself first.  Really get to know yourself.  Make sure that you are comfortable with who you.  If you look at yourself and don’t like what you see, then he may not either.  Become the person YOU want to be, then be that person.  Get out of your house and do the things you like to do.  This is where you’ll meet people who will want to get … (more…)

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How to Get Him to Love You: The Little Things Count

By on November 7, 2011

How long are you going to wait around for him to tell you that he loves you? Are you doing all that you can to get him to give you is heart? Or are you just sitting around playing with your thumbs, waiting for him to realize that you’re the best thing to ever happen to him. You may be sitting for a long time!

You have to take action. Unfortunately, it takes men a little longer to realize that they have a good thing than it does for women. So, if his heart is what you want…you have to put in the leg work. Here are a few things you can do to win him over!

Family Is Key

A man’s mother is definitely a key to winning his heart. The relationship with mother and son is a special one. If you can become close to her, without involving her in your relationship with him…you are off to a good start. If the man you are with has children, how you treat them will have a direct effect on your relationship with him. If you are lucky enough to be in the presence of his family, treat them as … (more…)

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How to Get Him to Love You: Slow and Steady Wins the Race

By on November 6, 2011

Finding love isn’t easy, even for the beautiful people. For women wondering how to make him love you, there are so many things that you can do to win his hear. Most of them are very traditional. This shouldn’t be seen as taking women back in time, it should be considered as making an investment to ensure that you get the kind of relationship that you want with the man that you want.

Be a Lady in the Streets

“Be a lady in the streets” is such a loaded phrase. First, a lady should carry herself in a certain manner when she is in the presence of her significant other, especially in public. What takes place behind closed doors is a whole different thing. Present yourself as his crown jewel, and he will see you as such. And you can be sure, that the next time he runs into whoever else may have been present; you will be the topic of conversation. He will definitely be made aware of how much of an impression you made and will continue to make on others.

The Way to His Heart Is His Stomach

You may have heard this so many times and … (more…)

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3 Things to Do to Get Him to Love You

By on November 3, 2011

Looking at him, he seems like the perfect man, doesn’t he? He does all of the right things and touches you in all of the right ways; doesn’t he? Yet, there’s one little problem…he still hasn’t said those 3 “magic words”. Now, you’re sitting around wondering how to get a man to love you and say it.

Time and Space
One of the best things you can do when you’re working on how to get a man to love you is to give him time and space. There is nothing that turns a man off more than a clingy and needy woman. Of course, a man wants to feel relevant but he doesn’t want to be smothered. Remember, he is your partner, not your child.

Time and space will let him know a few things. First, it says that you trust him enough to give him room to breathe outside of your presence. Second, it lets him see that you want him to still have a sense of freedom even though he is in a relationship. It shows that although you are together on a personal level, you know that he is still an individual and should be able to … (more…)

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The Way to His Heart

By on November 1, 2011

The Way to the Heart of “Mr. Can’t Be Nice To”

Believe it or not, not all men are the same. There are men who love being pampered and catered to, and then there are the ones who like the chase and the challenge. In this particular article, we’re going explore the latter of the two. We will call him, “Mr. Can’t Be Nice To”.

Yes, even these men have women who want to be loved by them. So, if you have a “Mr. Can’t Be Nice To” and you’re spending sleepless nights wondering how to get him to love you, pay attention! He is a different breed of man. This should be evident in the fact that he’s not happy unless you’re treating him in a way other than lovingly.

Take No Mess

When it comes to “Mr. Can’t Be Nice To”, you really can’t be nice to him. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If he asks you to do something and you don’t feel like it, don’t! Sounds a bit weird, right? Yet, if you notice…when you say “no”, his reaction isn’t going to be that he’ll do it himself. What he will actually … (more…)

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